In marriage, the idea of the both groups are important … because, if the experience of elders, a long, comprehensive look, and marital insight of them won"t go over to, They can never be moved, they move gropingly , even if the daughter and the son are educated the can not have well advised behaviour. because both the girl and the boy are trying to make some sense and enter to the growing pains of the life rapidly! hereupon The family's opinion on that basis is very important... On the other hand, it is the daughter and the son who have to be sufficiently familiar with intelligential traits of each other. so that they can make a good fortuneby the experience of the elders for themselves. Therefore, in a successful marriage, both opinions must be effective.